Chủ đề về trải nghiệm căng thẳng hay lo lắng là một trong những đề tài xuất hiện thường xuyên nhất trong IELTS Speaking, đặc biệt ở Part 2. Theo thống kê từ các kỳ thi thực tế, chủ đề này xuất hiện với tần suất cao trong giai đoạn 2022-2024 và được dự đoán sẽ tiếp tục là một đề tài phổ biến trong tương lai với khả năng xuất hiện ở mức độ cao.
Điều khiến chủ đề này trở nên thách thức là nó yêu cầu bạn phải kể chi tiết về cảm xúc cá nhân, giải thích rõ ràng nguyên nhân, tình huống và cách bạn đối phó với sự lo lắng đó. Đây không chỉ là bài kiểm tra khả năng diễn đạt mà còn là cơ hội để thể hiện vốn từ vựng về cảm xúc, khả năng sử dụng thì quá khứ chính xác và kỹ năng storytelling tự nhiên.
Trong bài viết này, bạn sẽ học được cách trả lời câu hỏi về chủ đề “nervous” trong cả ba phần của bài thi IELTS Speaking. Cụ thể, bạn sẽ được trang bị các câu hỏi thường gặp kèm bài mẫu chi tiết theo từng band điểm từ 6-7 đến 8.5-9, phân tích sâu về tiêu chí chấm điểm, kho từ vựng và cụm từ ăn điểm, cùng những chiến lược trả lời hiệu quả từ góc nhìn của một examiner chính thức. Đặc biệt, tôi sẽ chỉ ra những lỗi thường gặp của học viên Việt Nam và cách khắc phục để nâng band điểm speaking của bạn lên tầm cao mới.
IELTS Speaking Part 1: Introduction and Interview
Tổng Quan Về Part 1
Part 1 của IELTS Speaking thường kéo dài khoảng 4-5 phút, trong đó examiner sẽ hỏi các câu hỏi ngắn về cuộc sống hàng ngày, sở thích, công việc hoặc học tập của bạn. Đặc điểm của Part 1 là các câu hỏi khá đơn giản, thân thiện và dễ tiếp cận.
Chiến lược tốt nhất cho Part 1 là trả lời tự nhiên, mở rộng ý bằng 2-3 câu thay vì chỉ Yes/No. Bạn nên bắt đầu bằng câu trả lời trực tiếp, sau đó bổ sung thêm lý do hoặc ví dụ cụ thể từ kinh nghiệm cá nhân.
Lỗi thường gặp của học viên Việt Nam trong Part 1:
- Trả lời quá ngắn gọn, chỉ một câu Yes/No mà không giải thích
- Sử dụng từ vựng quá đơn giản, lặp lại những từ cơ bản
- Thiếu ví dụ cụ thể để minh họa cho câu trả lời
- Ngần ngại, dừng lại quá lâu giữa các câu
Các Câu Hỏi Thường Gặp
Question 1: Do you often feel nervous in your daily life?
Question 2: What kind of situations make you feel nervous?
Question 3: How do you usually deal with nervousness?
Question 4: Did you feel nervous when you were a child?
Question 5: Do you think it’s normal to feel nervous before important events?
Question 6: What do you do to calm yourself down when you’re nervous?
Question 7: Have you ever felt nervous about meeting new people?
Question 8: Do you think being nervous can be helpful sometimes?
Phân Tích và Gợi Ý Trả Lời Chi Tiết
Question: Do you often feel nervous in your daily life?
🎯 Cách tiếp cận:
- Trả lời trực tiếp có hay không
- Đưa ra tần suất cụ thể (sometimes, occasionally, rarely)
- Giải thích ngắn gọn trong tình huống nào
- Có thể thêm ví dụ hoặc so sánh
📝 Sample Answer – Band 6-7:
“Yes, I sometimes feel nervous, especially before important meetings at work. I think it’s quite normal because I want to do well. Usually, the nervousness goes away after I start the task.”
Phân tích:
- Điểm mạnh: Trả lời trực tiếp câu hỏi, có đưa ra ví dụ cụ thể (important meetings), có giải thích lý do
- Hạn chế: Từ vựng còn cơ bản (nervous, important, goes away), cấu trúc câu đơn giản, thiếu chi tiết
- Tại sao Band 6-7: Câu trả lời rõ ràng và có liên quan nhưng chưa thể hiện được vốn từ vựng phong phú hay cấu trúc ngữ pháp phức tạp. Ý tưởng còn khá chung chung.
📝 Sample Answer – Band 8-9:
“I wouldn’t say I’m constantly on edge, but I do experience butterflies in my stomach from time to time, particularly when I’m about to give a presentation or tackle a challenging project. I think it’s actually a healthy dose of anxiety that keeps me alert and motivated. Once I get the ball rolling, though, the nervousness tends to dissipate naturally.”
Phân tích:
- Điểm mạnh: Sử dụng idiom tự nhiên (butterflies in my stomach, get the ball rolling), từ vựng đa dạng và chính xác (constantly on edge, dissipate naturally, healthy dose of anxiety), cấu trúc câu phức tạp với mệnh đề quan hệ và liên từ, thể hiện suy nghĩ sâu sắc về tính tích cực của lo lắng
- Tại sao Band 8-9: Thể hiện khả năng sử dụng ngôn ngữ linh hoạt với collocation tự nhiên. Grammar chính xác với các thời thái khác nhau. Ý tưởng được trình bày logic và có chiều sâu, không chỉ trả lời mà còn phân tích.
💡 Key Vocabulary & Expressions:
- butterflies in my stomach: cảm giác lo lắng, bồn chồn trong lòng
- on edge: căng thẳng, lo lắng liên tục
- a healthy dose of anxiety: một mức độ lo lắng lành mạnh
- dissipate naturally: tan biến một cách tự nhiên
- get the ball rolling: bắt đầu công việc
Question: What kind of situations make you feel nervous?
🎯 Cách tiếp cận:
- Liệt kê 2-3 tình huống cụ thể
- Giải thích tại sao những tình huống đó gây lo lắng
- Có thể so sánh mức độ lo lắng giữa các tình huống
📝 Sample Answer – Band 6-7:
“I usually feel nervous when I have to speak in front of many people or when I’m taking an important exam. Public speaking makes me nervous because I’m worried about making mistakes. Also, job interviews are quite stressful for me.”
Phân tích:
- Điểm mạnh: Đưa ra được nhiều ví dụ cụ thể (public speaking, exams, job interviews), có giải thích lý do
- Hạn chế: Từ vựng lặp lại (nervous xuất hiện 2 lần), cấu trúc câu đơn giản, thiếu sự kết nối mượt mà giữa các ý
- Tại sao Band 6-7: Nội dung đầy đủ và relevant nhưng cách diễn đạt chưa sophisticated, thiếu variety trong vocabulary và grammar structures.
📝 Sample Answer – Band 8-9:
“Well, I tend to get anxious in situations where I’m being evaluated or judged, such as performance reviews at work or when I’m delivering a presentation to senior management. What really triggers my nervousness is the fear of not living up to expectations. On top of that, I also feel quite uneasy in unfamiliar social settings where I don’t know anyone, as I’m naturally a bit introverted and need time to warm up to new people.”
Phân tích:
- Điểm mạnh: Từ vựng đa dạng tránh lặp từ (anxious, nervous, uneasy, triggers), collocation tự nhiên (living up to expectations, warm up to people), cấu trúc câu phức tạp với relative clause, phân tích sâu về nguyên nhân (fear of not living up to expectations), thêm thông tin về tính cách (introverted)
- Tại sao Band 8-9: Fluency cao với discourse markers (Well, On top of that), vocabulary precise và sophisticated, grammar structures đa dạng, ideas có depth và personal insight.
💡 Key Vocabulary & Expressions:
- get anxious: trở nên lo lắng
- be evaluated/judged: bị đánh giá
- trigger nervousness: kích hoạt sự lo lắng
- not live up to expectations: không đáp ứng được kỳ vọng
- warm up to someone: làm quen và cảm thấy thoải mái với ai đó
- introverted: hướng nội
Question: How do you usually deal with nervousness?
🎯 Cách tiếp cận:
- Mô tả phương pháp cụ thể bạn sử dụng
- Giải thích tại sao phương pháp đó hiệu quả
- Có thể đề cập đến việc đã thay đổi cách xử lý theo thời gian
📝 Sample Answer – Band 6-7:
“When I feel nervous, I try to take deep breaths to calm down. I also listen to music because it helps me relax. Sometimes I talk to my friends about my worries and they give me advice.”
Phân tích:
- Điểm mạnh: Đưa ra nhiều phương pháp (breathing, music, talking to friends), có giải thích tác dụng
- Hạn chế: Từ vựng basic (calm down, relax, worries), thiếu chi tiết về cách thực hiện, câu văn ngắn và đơn giản
- Tại sao Band 6-7: Adequate response nhưng lacks sophistication trong language use và depth trong ideas.
📝 Sample Answer – Band 8-9:
“I’ve developed several coping mechanisms over the years. My go-to strategy is deep breathing exercises combined with positive self-talk – I remind myself that I’m well-prepared and capable. I also find that physical activity, like going for a run, really helps me blow off steam and clear my head. What’s more, I’ve learned to reframe nervousness as excitement, which actually channels that energy into something productive. If I’m particularly anxious about an upcoming event, I’ll visualize success and mentally rehearse the situation, which significantly reduces my anxiety levels.”
Phân tích:
- Điểm mạnh: Vocabulary sophisticated (coping mechanisms, reframe, visualize, mentally rehearse), nhiều collocations tự nhiên (blow off steam, clear my head, reduce anxiety levels), grammar structures phức tạp và đa dạng, ý tưởng sâu sắc về psychological approach (reframing nervousness), discourse markers tự nhiên (What’s more)
- Tại sao Band 8-9: Demonstrates exceptional fluency và flexibility in language use. Shows personal development (I’ve learned, over the years). Uses precise vocabulary và complex grammar naturally. Ideas are sophisticated và well-developed.
💡 Key Vocabulary & Expressions:
- coping mechanisms: cơ chế đối phó, phương pháp xử lý
- positive self-talk: tự động viên bản thân tích cực
- blow off steam: xả stress
- clear my head: làm đầu óc tỉnh táo
- reframe nervousness as excitement: thay đổi góc nhìn về sự lo lắng thành sự phấn khích
- visualize success: hình dung thành công
- mentally rehearse: diễn tập trong đầu
Kỹ năng đối phó với sự lo lắng trong IELTS Speaking về chủ đề nervous
IELTS Speaking Part 2: Long Turn (Cue Card)
Tổng Quan Về Part 2
Part 2 là phần quan trọng nhất trong bài thi IELTS Speaking, kéo dài khoảng 3-4 phút bao gồm 1 phút chuẩn bị và 2-3 phút nói. Đây là phần độc thoại, examiner sẽ không ngắt lời bạn. Bạn sẽ nhận được một cue card với chủ đề cụ thể và các gợi ý (bullet points) cần trả lời.
Chiến lược hiệu quả cho Part 2:
- Sử dụng đầy đủ 1 phút chuẩn bị để ghi chú keywords, không viết câu hoàn chỉnh
- Nói đủ 2 phút, tối thiểu 1.5 phút để tránh bị đánh giá thiếu fluency
- Trả lời đầy đủ tất cả các bullet points theo thứ tự
- Sử dụng thì quá khứ chính xác khi kể về trải nghiệm đã xảy ra
- Mở rộng câu cuối “explain” vì đây là phần ghi điểm cao nhất
Lỗi thường gặp của học viên Việt Nam:
- Không tận dụng hết 1 phút chuẩn bị, vội vã bắt đầu nói
- Nói dưới 1.5 phút, kết thúc quá sớm
- Bỏ quên một hoặc nhiều bullet points
- Sử dụng sai thì (quá khứ/hiện tại)
- Phần “explain” quá ngắn gọn, không phát triển ý
Cue Card
Describe A Time When You Felt Very Nervous About Something
You should say:
- When it was
- What you were nervous about
- What you did to deal with your nervousness
- And explain why you felt so nervous about it
Phân Tích Đề Bài
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Dạng câu hỏi: Describe an experience/event (Mô tả một trải nghiệm/sự kiện)
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Thì động từ: Quá khứ đơn và quá khứ tiếp diễn (vì đây là sự việc đã xảy ra)
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Bullet points phải cover:
- Thời điểm cụ thể (When it was) – cần nêu rõ khi nào, có thể là năm, tháng hoặc giai đoạn
- Nguyên nhân lo lắng (What you were nervous about) – giải thích rõ tình huống, sự kiện
- Cách xử lý (What you did) – hành động cụ thể để đối phó với lo lắng
- Giải thích sâu hơn (And explain why) – phân tích tại sao lại cảm thấy lo lắng đến vậy
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Câu “explain” quan trọng: Đây là phần ghi điểm cao nhất vì yêu cầu bạn phân tích sâu về cảm xúc, động cơ và tác động. Đừng chỉ nói “because it was important” mà cần giải thích tại sao nó important, nó ảnh hưởng thế nào đến bạn, bạn cảm thấy gì trong lúc đó.
📝 Sample Answer – Band 6-7
Thời lượng: Khoảng 1.5-2 phút
“I’d like to talk about a time when I felt very nervous. It was about two years ago when I had to give a presentation at my university. I was nervous about presenting in front of my classmates and professor.
The presentation was for my final project, and it was worth 30% of my grade. I had to present for 15 minutes about my research topic. I spent many days preparing the slides and practicing what to say.
To deal with my nervousness, I practiced many times in front of the mirror. I also asked my friend to listen to my presentation and give me feedback. The night before, I couldn’t sleep well because I kept thinking about it. On the day of the presentation, I took some deep breaths before going into the classroom.
I felt so nervous because it was my first time presenting such an important project. I was worried that I would forget what to say or make mistakes. Also, I’m not very confident when speaking in front of many people. The professor was quite strict, and I really wanted to get a good grade. During the presentation, my hands were shaking and my voice was not very steady, but I managed to finish it. In the end, I got a good grade, which made me feel relieved and proud of myself.”
Phân Tích Band Điểm
| Tiêu chí | Band | Nhận xét |
|---|---|---|
| Fluency & Coherence | 6-7 | Có thể nói liên tục trong thời gian yêu cầu, sử dụng linking words cơ bản (also, because, in the end) nhưng chưa sophisticated. Có hesitation nhẹ nhưng không ảnh hưởng nhiều. |
| Lexical Resource | 6-7 | Từ vựng adequate cho chủ đề (presentation, feedback, deep breaths, relieved) nhưng còn lặp lại (nervous xuất hiện nhiều lần). Thiếu collocations và idioms nâng cao. |
| Grammatical Range & Accuracy | 6-7 | Sử dụng đúng thì quá khứ xuyên suốt, có một số câu phức (when, because) nhưng chủ yếu là câu đơn và câu ghép đơn giản. Một số lỗi nhỏ về article. |
| Pronunciation | 6-7 | Phát âm rõ ràng, dễ hiểu với intonation cơ bản. Có thể có accent nhẹ nhưng không gây hiểu nhầm. |
Điểm mạnh:
- ✅ Trả lời đầy đủ tất cả bullet points theo thứ tự
- ✅ Có timeline rõ ràng (two years ago, many days, the night before, on the day)
- ✅ Có ví dụ cụ thể và chi tiết (30% of grade, 15 minutes, strict professor)
- ✅ Kết thúc tốt với outcome (got good grade, felt relieved)
Hạn chế:
- ⚠️ Từ vựng còn basic và lặp lại (nervous, worried, good)
- ⚠️ Thiếu idioms và expressions nâng cao
- ⚠️ Phần explain chưa đủ sâu về psychological aspect
📝 Sample Answer – Band 7.5-8
Thời lượng: Khoảng 2-2.5 phút
“I’d like to share an experience that still stands out in my memory – it was during my final year at university when I had to deliver a presentation for my graduation project, which took place about two years ago.
What made me particularly nervous was that this wasn’t just any ordinary presentation. It was the culmination of months of research, and I had to present my findings to a panel of professors and industry experts. The stakes were incredibly high as it accounted for 40% of my final grade and could potentially make or break my graduation with honors.
To cope with the mounting anxiety, I adopted several strategies. I rehearsed extensively, probably going through my slides at least 20 times. I also recorded myself presenting to identify areas for improvement. Additionally, I sought feedback from my supervisor and incorporated her suggestions. The night before, I made sure to get adequate sleep rather than cramming, as I knew that being well-rested would help me think on my feet during the Q&A session.
The reason this experience was so nerve-wracking was multifaceted. Firstly, there was the pressure of performing in front of experts who could easily spot flaws in my methodology. Secondly, I’m naturally self-conscious about public speaking, especially in my second language. What amplified my nervousness was knowing that my parents had invested significantly in my education, and I desperately wanted to make them proud. During the presentation, I could feel my heart racing and my palms sweating, but I pushed through. Fortunately, the presentation went well, and I received positive feedback. This experience taught me that nervousness is natural, but thorough preparation can help you rise to the challenge.”
Phân Tích Band Điểm
| Tiêu chí | Band | Nhận xét |
|---|---|---|
| Fluency & Coherence | 7.5-8 | Nói trôi chảy với minimal hesitation, sử dụng discourse markers tự nhiên (Additionally, Firstly, Secondly, Fortunately). Coherent progression of ideas với clear paragraphing. |
| Lexical Resource | 7.5-8 | Vocabulary đa dạng và precise (culmination, mounting anxiety, nerve-wracking, self-conscious). Collocations tự nhiên (make or break, think on my feet, rise to the challenge). |
| Grammatical Range & Accuracy | 7.5-8 | Wide range of structures including relative clauses, conditionals (as I knew that), passive (was so nerve-wracking). Sử dụng participle clauses (knowing that). Few errors. |
| Pronunciation | 7.5-8 | Clear pronunciation với good intonation patterns. Stress và rhythm tự nhiên. Easy to understand throughout. |
So Sánh Với Band 6-7
| Khía cạnh | Band 6-7 | Band 7.5-8 |
|---|---|---|
| Vocabulary | “very nervous”, “give a presentation” | “nerve-wracking”, “deliver a presentation”, “mounting anxiety” |
| Grammar | “I was nervous because it was important” | “What amplified my nervousness was knowing that…” |
| Ideas | “I practiced many times” | “I rehearsed extensively, probably going through my slides at least 20 times” |
| Depth | “I wanted to get a good grade” | “My parents had invested significantly in my education, and I desperately wanted to make them proud” |
Tương tự như describe a time when you felt very proud of yourself, trải nghiệm về những cảm xúc mạnh mẽ thường yêu cầu thí sinh phải diễn tả chi tiết và sâu sắc về trạng thái tâm lý của mình.
📝 Sample Answer – Band 8.5-9
Thời lượng: 2.5-3 phút đầy đủ
“I’d like to recount an experience that was truly a test of nerves – my first day as an intern at a prestigious multinational company, which occurred approximately 18 months ago during my final semester at university.
What sent my anxiety levels soaring was the fact that I’d be working alongside seasoned professionals in a fast-paced corporate environment. I was assigned to assist with a critical client presentation, and despite being just an intern, I was expected to contribute meaningfully to the project. The prospect of potentially committing a faux pas or falling short of expectations in such a high-stakes environment was absolutely daunting.
To manage this overwhelming nervousness, I employed a multi-pronged approach. I immersed myself in the company’s previous work, scrutinizing their presentation style and methodology. I also reached out to my university mentor for advice on navigating corporate dynamics. On top of that, I practiced mindfulness techniques and visualization exercises – I would mentally walk through various scenarios, imagining myself handling them with composure. The night before, rather than obsessing over what could go wrong, I focused on my strengths and reminded myself that everyone starts somewhere.
The intensity of my nervousness stemmed from multiple sources. For starters, I was acutely aware of the credibility gap between myself and my colleagues who had years of industry experience under their belts. There was also the impostor syndrome element – this nagging feeling that I didn’t truly belong there and would be exposed as inadequate at any moment. What’s more, I’d always prided myself on my academic achievements, and the thought of falling flat in a real-world setting where grades don’t matter was profoundly unsettling. The cultural aspect added another layer of anxiety – as someone from a more reserved background, I was worried about asserting myself in meetings without coming across as either too passive or overly aggressive. When the day finally arrived, I could feel adrenaline coursing through my veins, but I channeled that nervous energy into focused attention and active participation. Looking back, while it was emotionally taxing, that experience was instrumental in building my confidence and helped me realize that nervousness often signals that we’re pushing our boundaries and stepping out of our comfort zone – which is exactly where growth happens.”
Phân Tích Band Điểm
| Tiêu chí | Band | Nhận xét |
|---|---|---|
| Fluency & Coherence | 8.5-9 | Speaks fluently với natural, effortless delivery. Sophisticated use of discourse markers (For starters, What’s more, Looking back). Perfect coherence và progression of ideas. |
| Lexical Resource | 8.5-9 | Demonstrates exceptional vocabulary control (daunting, multi-pronged approach, credibility gap, impostor syndrome). Natural idiomatic language (fall flat, under their belts, push boundaries). Precise và sophisticated word choice throughout. |
| Grammatical Range & Accuracy | 8.5-9 | Full range of structures used accurately và appropriately. Complex sentences with multiple clauses. Perfect use of participles, conditionals, relative clauses. Virtually error-free. |
| Pronunciation | 8.5-9 | Native-like pronunciation features với sophisticated stress patterns, rhythm, và intonation. Uses pronunciation to enhance meaning. |
Tại Sao Bài Này Xuất Sắc
🎯 Fluency Hoàn Hảo:
Bài nói demonstrates effortless fluency với coherent progression từ introduction → situation → actions → deep explanation. Không có hesitation, tự nhiên như người bản ngữ kể chuyện.
📚 Vocabulary Tinh Vi:
- “a test of nerves” – idiom nâng cao thay vì “very nervous”
- “sent my anxiety levels soaring” – metaphor sinh động thay vì “made me very nervous”
- “committing a faux pas” – sophisticated expression thay vì “making a mistake”
- “impostor syndrome” – psychology term cho thấy understanding sâu về cảm xúc
- “adrenaline coursing through my veins” – vivid imagery thay vì “I felt nervous”
📝 Grammar Đa Dạng:
- “The prospect of potentially committing… was absolutely daunting” – gerund phrase as subject với complex structure
- “Rather than obsessing over what could go wrong, I focused…” – contrast structure với gerund
- “as someone from a more reserved background, I was worried…” – prepositional phrase với participle clause
- “that nervousness often signals that we’re pushing…” – complex sentence với multiple that-clauses
💡 Ideas Sâu Sắc:
Bài nói không chỉ describe nervousness mà còn analyze roots of anxiety (credibility gap, impostor syndrome, cultural factors) và conclude với personal growth insight. Demonstrates critical thinking và self-awareness ở mức cao.
Trải nghiệm lo lắng khi thuyết trình của thí sinh IELTS Speaking
Follow-up Questions (Rounding Off Questions)
Sau Part 2, examiner thường hỏi thêm 1-2 câu ngắn để chuyển sang Part 3:
Question 1: Do you still feel nervous in similar situations now?
Band 6-7 Answer:
“Not as much as before. I’ve become more confident after that experience, but I still feel a little nervous sometimes.”
Band 8-9 Answer:
“I’d say my nervousness has significantly diminished since then. That experience was really a turning point that helped me develop coping mechanisms I now use routinely. While I still experience butterflies occasionally, I’ve learned to reframe that nervous energy as anticipation rather than fear, which makes it much more manageable.”
Question 2: How do you think your nervousness affected your performance?
Band 6-7 Answer:
“At first, it made me worry a lot, but I think the nervousness also motivated me to prepare more carefully.”
Band 8-9 Answer:
“Interestingly, I think it was a double-edged sword. On one hand, the nervousness did cause some initial paralysis and self-doubt, but on the other hand, it galvanized me into meticulous preparation. In retrospect, I believe that moderate level of anxiety actually enhanced my performance by keeping me sharp and focused, whereas complete calm might have led to complacency.”
IELTS Speaking Part 3: Two-way Discussion
Tổng Quan Về Part 3
Part 3 là phần thảo luận sâu nhất, kéo dài 4-5 phút với các câu hỏi trừu tượng và phức tạp hơn liên quan đến chủ đề của Part 2. Đây là lúc examiner đánh giá khả năng phân tích, so sánh, đưa ra quan điểm có lý lẽ của bạn.
Yêu cầu của Part 3:
- Phân tích vấn đề từ nhiều góc độ khác nhau
- So sánh và đối chiếu (compare and contrast)
- Đưa ra quan điểm cá nhân có supporting reasons
- Xem xét cả positive và negative aspects của vấn đề
- Sử dụng examples từ society, không chỉ personal experience
Chiến lược hiệu quả:
- Mở rộng câu trả lời với 3-5 câu (30-45 giây)
- Sử dụng discourse markers để structure ideas (Well, Actually, On the one hand…)
- Đưa ra examples từ xã hội, thế giới, không chỉ cá nhân
- Thừa nhận complexity của vấn đề (It depends, There are various factors…)
- Không sợ nói “I’m not entirely sure, but I think…”
Lỗi thường gặp của học viên Việt Nam:
- Trả lời quá ngắn, chỉ 1-2 câu
- Không phân tích, chỉ nêu opinion mà không giải thích
- Thiếu từ vựng abstract và academic
- Không đưa ra ví dụ cụ thể từ xã hội
- Speaking quá general, không có depth
Các Câu Hỏi Thảo Luận Sâu
Theme 1: Nervousness and Performance
Question 1: Do you think feeling nervous before important events is beneficial or harmful?
🎯 Phân tích câu hỏi:
- Dạng: Opinion question với yêu cầu đánh giá hai mặt (beneficial vs harmful)
- Key words: feeling nervous, important events, beneficial, harmful
- Cách tiếp cận: Đưa ra balanced view, thừa nhận cả advantages và disadvantages, sau đó state personal stance với supporting reasons
📝 Sample Answer – Band 6-7:
“I think feeling nervous can be both good and bad. On the positive side, nervousness can help people prepare better because they don’t want to fail. For example, students who feel nervous before exams usually study harder. However, too much nervousness can be harmful because it might make people perform poorly. Some people get so nervous that they can’t think clearly during the actual event.”
Phân tích:
- Structure: Có structure cơ bản: state both sides → example → conclusion
- Vocabulary: Adequate với từ vựng đơn giản (good and bad, prepare better, perform poorly)
- Tại sao Band 6-7: Answer relevant và coherent nhưng lacks sophistication. Ideas còn general, chưa có depth trong analysis.
📝 Câu trả lời mẫu – Band 8-9:
“Well, I’d say it’s very much a double-edged sword that requires a nuanced perspective. On the one hand, moderate anxiety can actually be highly beneficial – there’s substantial psychological research showing that what’s called ‘eustress’ or positive stress can sharpen focus, boost motivation, and enhance performance. It’s essentially our body’s way of mobilizing resources to rise to a challenge. Athletes, for instance, often report that pre-competition nerves help them achieve peak performance by triggering adrenaline that heightens their reflexes and concentration.
On the other hand, when nervousness crosses the threshold into debilitating anxiety, it becomes counterproductive. This is what psychologists call the Yerkes-Dodson Law – there’s an optimal level of arousal for performance, beyond which additional stress actually impairs cognitive function. We’ve all seen cases where excessive nervousness leads to mental blocks, poor decision-making, or even physical manifestations like freezing up during crucial moments.
I believe the key lies in learning to harness nervousness constructively rather than suppressing it entirely. Ultimately, it’s not about eliminating nervousness but about developing emotional regulation skills to keep it within productive boundaries.”
Phân tích:
- Structure: Exceptionally well-organized: acknowledge complexity → positive aspects with evidence → negative aspects with theory → balanced conclusion with solution
- Vocabulary: Highly sophisticated (nuanced perspective, mobilizing resources, debilitating anxiety, counterproductive, cognitive function, emotional regulation)
- Grammar: Complex structures: relative clauses, conditional implications, participles (what’s called, learning to harness)
- Critical Thinking: References psychological concepts (eustress, Yerkes-Dodson Law), shows academic knowledge, provides balanced analysis với clear reasoning
💡 Key Language Features:
- Discourse markers: Well, On the one hand, On the other hand, Ultimately, I believe the key lies in
- Tentative language: I’d say, can actually be, often report
- Abstract nouns: nuanced perspective, cognitive function, emotional regulation, optimal level
- Academic references: eustress, Yerkes-Dodson Law (shows broader knowledge)
Question 2: Why do some people handle nervousness better than others?
🎯 Phân tích câu hỏi:
- Dạng: Cause-effect/Explanation question
- Key words: some people, handle nervousness better, than others
- Cách tiếp cận: Identify multiple factors (personality, experience, upbringing, coping strategies), provide examples cho mỗi factor
📝 Sample Answer – Band 6-7:
“I think there are several reasons. First, some people are naturally more confident than others, so they don’t get nervous easily. Also, people who have more experience in stressful situations usually handle nervousness better because they’re used to it. Family background might also play a role – if parents teach their children how to deal with stress from a young age, these children might be better at managing nervousness when they grow up.”
Phân tích:
- Structure: Lists multiple factors nhưng development còn shallow
- Vocabulary: Basic expressions (naturally more confident, used to it, play a role)
- Tại sao Band 6-7: Covers multiple points nhưng lacks detailed explanation và sophisticated language
📝 Câu trả lời mẫu – Band 8-9:
“This is a multifaceted question with no single answer, as individual differences in stress tolerance can be attributed to various interconnected factors.
First and foremost, there’s the personality dimension. Research in psychology suggests that temperamental traits like extraversion and neuroticism significantly influence how people perceive and respond to stressful stimuli. Individuals high in emotional stability tend to have more balanced reactions and recover more quickly from anxiety-inducing situations, whereas those with higher neuroticism scores may be predisposed to more intense stress responses.
Equally important is the role of past experiences. People who’ve been repeatedly exposed to challenging situations often develop what psychologists call ‘stress inoculation’ – essentially, they’ve built up resilience through prior exposure. Think of it like developing immunity – the more you face certain stressors, the better your coping repertoire becomes. This is why seasoned professionals in high-pressure fields like emergency medicine or public speaking appear remarkably composed in situations that would overwhelm novices.
On top of that, upbringing and cultural conditioning play crucial roles. Children raised in environments where emotional regulation is actively taught and where mistakes are framed as learning opportunities rather than failures tend to develop healthier relationships with anxiety. Conversely, those who grew up in overly protective or highly critical environments may internalize maladaptive patterns that amplify their stress responses.
Lastly, I think we shouldn’t overlook the practical skills aspect – people who’ve actively learned stress management techniques like mindfulness, cognitive reframing, or systematic desensitization have concrete tools at their disposal, which makes a substantial difference.”
Phân tích:
- Structure: Exceptionally organized với clear signposting (First and foremost, Equally important, On top of that, Lastly)
- Vocabulary: Academic và precise (multifaceted, attributed to, predisposed to, stress inoculation, resilience, maladaptive patterns)
- Grammar: Full range of complex structures including relative clauses, conditional implications, passive constructions
- Critical Thinking: References psychological research, uses analogies (developing immunity), considers multiple perspectives (personality, experience, upbringing, skills), shows nuanced understanding
💡 Key Language Features:
- Academic collocations: multifaceted question, attributed to, predisposed to, stress inoculation, cognitive reframing
- Hedging language: suggests that, tend to, may be, I think
- Comparisons: whereas, conversely, more/less than
- Cause-effect markers: This is why, which makes
Nếu bạn quan tâm đến việc describe a time when you were very successful in your studies, việc biết cách quản lý sự lo lắng cũng đóng vai trò quan trọng trong thành công học tập.
Theme 2: Modern Life and Stress
Question 1: Do you think people today are more stressed than in the past?
🎯 Phân tích câu hỏi:
- Dạng: Compare and contrast (past vs present)
- Key words: people today, more stressed, than in the past
- Cách tiếp cận: Compare stress factors của past và present, acknowledge different types of stress, give balanced view
📝 Sample Answer – Band 6-7:
“Yes, I think people today are more stressed than before. Modern life is very fast-paced, and we have to deal with many things at the same time. For example, people need to answer emails even after work hours, which means they can’t really relax. Also, social media creates pressure because people compare themselves with others. However, in the past, people also had stress from different problems like poverty or lack of medical care.”
Phân tích:
- Structure: Present opinion → modern stress examples → acknowledge past stress
- Vocabulary: Common words (fast-paced, deal with, relax, pressure, compare)
- Tại sao Band 6-7: Relevant answer with some examples nhưng analysis lacks depth và sophistication
📝 Câu trả lời mẫu – Band 8-9:
“This is a complex comparison that requires us to distinguish between the nature and intensity of stress across different eras. I’d argue that while people today may not necessarily experience more stress in absolute terms, the type and sources of stress have fundamentally shifted in ways that make it more pervasive and chronic.
In contemporary society, we’re dealing with what I’d call ‘always-on’ stress – the constant connectivity through smartphones and digital platforms means we’re perpetually accessible and never truly disconnected from work or social obligations. This creates a sustained low-level anxiety that our ancestors simply didn’t experience. Moreover, we’re bombarded with information and choices – what psychologists call ‘decision fatigue’ and ‘information overload’ – which depletes our mental resources. The competitive pressure is also arguably more intense now, with globalized job markets and social comparison amplified by platforms like Instagram and LinkedIn.
That being said, we must acknowledge that previous generations faced existential stressors that were far more severe in many ways – think about the threat of famine, lack of basic medical care, shorter life expectancy, or living through wars. These were acute, survival-level stresses that, while potentially more life-threatening, were perhaps more clear-cut in nature.
What makes modern stress particularly insidious is its nebulous quality – it’s not about surviving until tomorrow but about juggling multiple roles, meeting abstract performance metrics, and navigating complex social dynamics. The paradox is that despite having unprecedented material comfort and technological conveniences, many people report feeling more anxious than ever, which suggests that the psychological dimension of stress has become disproportionately prominent in our era.”
Phân tích:
- Structure: Sophisticated organization: clarify complexity → modern stress characteristics → historical context → synthesize with nuanced conclusion
- Vocabulary: Advanced academic language (pervasive and chronic, perpetually accessible, nebulous quality, insidious, existential stressors, disproportionately prominent)
- Grammar: Complex structures throughout with multiple embedded clauses
- Critical Thinking: Distinguishes types vs amount of stress, uses psychological terms (decision fatigue, information overload), acknowledges paradox, shows historical awareness
💡 Key Language Features:
- Distinguishing language: distinguish between, fundamental shift, as opposed to
- Academic collocations: chronic stress, existential stressors, psychological dimension, material comfort
- Contrast markers: That being said, While, The paradox is
- Hedging: I’d argue that, arguably, perhaps, suggests that
Question 2: What can governments do to help reduce stress in society?
🎯 Phân tích câu hỏi:
- Dạng: Problem-solution với focus on government role
- Key words: governments, help reduce stress, society
- Cách tiếp cận: Suggest multiple solutions ở different levels (policy, infrastructure, education, healthcare), evaluate feasibility
📝 Sample Answer – Band 6-7:
“Governments can do several things to reduce stress. First, they can create better work-life balance policies, like limiting working hours and giving more vacation days. Second, they should invest more in mental health services so people can get help when they feel stressed. Also, they can create more public spaces like parks where people can relax. Education is important too – schools should teach students how to manage stress from a young age.”
Phân tích:
- Structure: Lists solutions clearly nhưng lacks detailed development
- Vocabulary: Straightforward (create, invest, teach, manage stress)
- Tại sao Band 6-7: Relevant suggestions nhưng explanation còn surface-level, thiếu critical evaluation
📝 Câu trả lời mẫu – Band 8-9:
“Governments have a pivotal role to play in addressing societal stress, though I think the approach needs to be comprehensive and multi-layered rather than relying on any single intervention.
At the policy level, implementing robust labor regulations would be crucial – this could include enforcing reasonable working hours, mandating paid leave, and penalizing toxic workplace practices that contribute to burnout. Countries like France have implemented ‘right to disconnect’ laws that prevent employers from contacting employees outside working hours, which serves as a model for protecting work-life boundaries. Such legislative frameworks send a clear message that employee wellbeing isn’t merely optional but a societal priority.
Equally critical is substantially expanding access to mental health services. Currently, in many countries, there’s a severe shortage of mental health professionals and prohibitive costs that deter people from seeking help. Governments could subsidize therapy, integrate mental health support into primary care, and launch public awareness campaigns to destigmatize mental health issues. Singapore’s model, which includes mandatory wellness programs in schools and workplaces, demonstrates how proactive intervention can be effective.
Beyond that, investment in public infrastructure that promotes wellbeing is essential – creating accessible green spaces, developing community centers, and improving public transportation to reduce commute stress. These may seem tangential, but urban design significantly impacts psychological wellbeing.
However, I think we must acknowledge the limitations of governmental action. Ultimately, while governments can create enabling conditions, individual stress management also requires personal responsibility and cultural shifts that can’t be legislated from above. The most effective approach would be a partnership model where governments provide infrastructure and support, but communities, employers, and individuals also play their parts.”
Phân tích:
- Structure: Multi-layered response: policy solutions → healthcare → infrastructure → acknowledge limitations → propose comprehensive approach
- Vocabulary: Sophisticated policy language (robust labor regulations, right to disconnect, prohibitive costs, enabling conditions, legislated from above)
- Grammar: Complex sentences with embedded clauses, passive constructions, conditional implications
- Critical Thinking: Provides specific examples (France, Singapore), evaluates feasibility, acknowledges limitations, proposes balanced approach, shows understanding of policy implementation challenges
💡 Key Language Features:
- Policy vocabulary: implementing, enforcing, mandating, subsidize, integrate, destigmatize
- Evaluation language: crucial, critical, essential, effective, limitations
- Examples: France’s ‘right to disconnect’, Singapore’s wellness programs
- Balanced view: However, Ultimately, The most effective approach
Để hiểu rõ hơn về việc vượt qua thách thức trong môi trường học tập, bạn có thể tham khảo thêm describe a time when you had to lead a group project, trong đó việc quản lý stress và lo lắng cũng là một phần quan trọng.
Chiến lược giảm stress trong xã hội hiện đại cho IELTS Speaking Part 3
Theme 3: Cultural Perspectives on Nervousness
Question 1: Do you think attitudes toward nervousness differ across cultures?
🎯 Phân tích câu hỏi:
- Dạng: Cultural comparison/analysis
- Key words: attitudes, nervousness, differ, cultures
- Cách tiếp cận: Compare different cultural perspectives, give specific examples, analyze underlying cultural values
📝 Sample Answer – Band 6-7:
“Yes, I think different cultures have different views about nervousness. In some Asian cultures, people try to hide their nervousness because showing emotions is seen as weakness. But in Western cultures, people are more open about their feelings and it’s okay to talk about being nervous. Also, the way people deal with nervousness is different – some cultures use meditation or traditional methods, while others prefer modern therapy.”
Phân tích:
- Structure: States difference → gives examples of Asian vs Western → mentions coping methods
- Vocabulary: Basic comparative language (different, more open, prefer)
- Tại sao Band 6-7: Makes valid cultural comparisons nhưng generalizes too much, lacks nuance và specific examples
📝 Câu trả lời mẫu – Band 8-9:
“Absolutely, cultural attitudes toward nervousness vary dramatically, and these differences are deeply rooted in fundamental cultural values regarding emotional expression, collectivism versus individualism, and concepts of face and reputation.
In many East Asian societies, particularly those influenced by Confucian values, there’s traditionally been a strong emphasis on maintaining emotional composure and social harmony. The concept of ‘face’ – one’s standing and reputation in the community – means that openly displaying nervousness might be perceived as a loss of control that could bring shame not just to oneself but to one’s family. This has led to cultural norms that encourage the internalization of anxiety rather than its expression. For instance, in Japan, there’s the concept of ‘gaman’ – enduring the seemingly unbearable with patience and dignity – which valorizes the suppression of discomfort including nervousness.
Conversely, in many Western contexts, particularly those influenced by therapeutic culture and individualistic values, there’s been a growing acceptance – even encouragement – of emotional transparency. The prevalent narrative is that acknowledging and expressing nervousness is the first step toward managing it healthily. This is reflected in workplace cultures where admitting to stress or anxiety is increasingly destigmatized, and seeking professional help is normalized rather than seen as weakness.
That said, I think we must avoid oversimplification. These cultural distinctions are becoming increasingly blurred in our globalized world, and there’s considerable variation within cultures as well. Moreover, younger generations in traditionally reserved cultures are increasingly adopting more expressive attitudes, partly due to global mental health awareness movements and social media influence.
What’s particularly interesting is how these cultural differences manifest in coping strategies – collective-oriented societies might emphasize group support and ritual practices, while individualistic cultures might focus more on personal therapy and self-help approaches. Neither approach is inherently superior; they simply reflect different underlying philosophies about the individual’s relationship to the community and the nature of wellbeing.”
Phân tích:
- Structure: Exceptionally sophisticated: affirm variation → East Asian perspective with specific concepts → Western perspective with contrast → acknowledge complexity and modern changes → analyze coping strategies → balanced conclusion
- Vocabulary: Culturally-specific terms (Confucian values, gaman, face, therapeutic culture), academic language (valorizes, destigmatized, manifest in, underlying philosophies)
- Grammar: Complex structures with multiple embeddings, sophisticated use of participles and relative clauses
- Critical Thinking: Uses specific cultural concepts, acknowledges oversimplification, considers generational changes, shows cultural sensitivity, analyzes root causes rather than just surface differences
💡 Key Language Features:
- Cultural terminology: Confucian values, concept of ‘face’, gaman, therapeutic culture, collectivism vs individualism
- Comparison structures: Conversely, while, whereas, in contrast
- Nuancing language: That said, avoid oversimplification, considerable variation, increasingly
- Academic expressions: deeply rooted in, manifest in, underlying philosophies, inherently superior
Khi describe a time when you attended a performance, nhiều thí sinh cũng thường đề cập đến cảm giác hồi hộp hoặc lo lắng trước một sự kiện quan trọng như vậy, cho thấy sự lo lắng là một phản ứng tự nhiên của con người trong nhiều tình huống khác nhau.
Question 2: Should schools teach students how to manage nervousness and stress?
🎯 Phân tích câu hỏi:
- Dạng: Opinion question về education policy
- Key words: schools, teach, manage nervousness and stress
- Cách tiếp cận: State position clearly, provide multiple reasons, acknowledge potential challenges, suggest implementation methods
📝 Sample Answer – Band 6-7:
“Yes, definitely. Schools should teach stress management because students face a lot of pressure from exams and homework. If they learn how to manage stress early, they will be better prepared for future challenges. Schools could include classes about relaxation techniques, time management, and healthy lifestyle. This would help students not only in school but also in their future careers.”
Phân tích:
- Structure: Clear position → reason → suggestions → future benefit
- Vocabulary: Straightforward educational terms (teach, learn, classes, techniques)
- Tại sao Band 6-7: Clear position with relevant reasons nhưng lacks depth in argumentation và sophisticated language
📝 Câu trả lời mẫu – Band 8-9:
“I’m strongly in favor of this, and I’d actually go further to say it should be a core component of the curriculum rather than an optional add-on. The rationale is compelling on multiple levels.
First and foremost, we’re currently facing a youth mental health crisis with alarming rates of anxiety and depression among students globally. Traditional education has focused almost exclusively on cognitive development while largely neglecting emotional and psychological resilience. This is a critical oversight considering that the ability to manage stress is arguably more predictive of long-term life success than many academic skills. Students who lack coping mechanisms often spiral into more serious mental health issues or develop maladaptive behaviors like substance abuse or social withdrawal.
Moreover, the preventive aspect is crucial. Teaching stress management early is far more effective and cost-efficient than intervening after problems have already crystallized. Think of it as emotional inoculation – by exposing students to stress management frameworks in a supportive environment, we’re equipping them with lifelong tools. This could include evidence-based practices like mindfulness meditation, cognitive behavioral techniques, emotional regulation strategies, and practical skills like time management and healthy boundary-setting.
What’s particularly compelling is the ripple effect – students who learn these skills don’t just benefit individually; they can model healthy coping for peers and eventually their own children, creating a positive intergenerational cycle.
That said, implementation needs to be thoughtful. It shouldn’t be a token one-hour session but rather integrated throughout the educational experience. The challenge lies in training teachers adequately, avoiding the stigmatization of these classes as being for ‘weak’ students, and ensuring age-appropriate content. Ideally, these skills would be woven into existing subjects rather than siloed as a separate class.
Looking at successful models, countries like Australia have implemented comprehensive social-emotional learning programs that show measurable improvements in both student wellbeing and academic outcomes. This empirical evidence strongly supports the educational value of such initiatives.”
Phân tích:
- Structure: Exceptionally well-developed: strong opening position → compelling rationale with evidence → preventive benefits → ripple effects → implementation challenges → real-world examples → empirical support
- Vocabulary: Sophisticated educational and psychological terminology (cognitive development, emotional resilience, maladaptive behaviors, emotional inoculation, evidence-based practices, intergenerational cycle)
- Grammar: Full range of complex structures including conditionals, relative clauses, passive constructions, participles
- Critical Thinking: Uses statistical awareness (alarming rates), cost-benefit analysis (preventive vs intervention), considers implementation challenges, cites specific examples (Australia), uses research-based argument (empirical evidence), shows systems thinking (ripple effect)
💡 Key Language Features:
- Strong positioning: I’m strongly in favor of, I’d actually go further, This is a critical oversight
- Academic argumentation: The rationale is compelling, arguably more predictive, far more effective
- Evidence-based language: evidence-based practices, measurable improvements, empirical evidence
- Implementation vocabulary: integrated throughout, age-appropriate, woven into
- Problem-solution language: The challenge lies in, Ideally, thoughtful implementation
Từ vựng và cụm từ quan trọng
Topic-Specific Vocabulary
| Từ vựng/Cụm từ | Loại từ | Phiên âm | Nghĩa tiếng Việt | Ví dụ | Collocation |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| nerve-wracking | adj | /ˈnɜːv ˌrækɪŋ/ | căng thẳng thần kinh, gây lo lắng | The interview was absolutely nerve-wracking. | nerve-wracking experience, nerve-wracking situation, nerve-wracking moment |
| butterflies in one’s stomach | idiom | /ˈbʌtəflaɪz ɪn wʌnz ˈstʌmək/ | cảm giác bồn chồn, lo lắng | I had butterflies in my stomach before the presentation. | get/have butterflies, feel butterflies, butterflies started |
| on edge | idiom | /ɒn edʒ/ | căng thẳng, bồn chồn | She was on edge all day waiting for the results. | feel on edge, put someone on edge, constantly on edge |
| anxious | adj | /ˈæŋkʃəs/ | lo lắng, băn khoăn | I felt anxious about the upcoming exam. | anxious about, anxious to, deeply anxious, increasingly anxious |
| apprehensive | adj | /ˌæprɪˈhensɪv/ | e ngại, lo sợ | He was apprehensive about meeting his future in-laws. | apprehensive about, feel apprehensive, understandably apprehensive |
| daunting | adj | /ˈdɔːntɪŋ/ | nản lòng, đáng sợ | The task seemed daunting at first. | daunting task, daunting challenge, daunting prospect, quite daunting |
| mounting anxiety | noun phrase | /ˈmaʊntɪŋ æŋˈzaɪəti/ | sự lo lắng gia tăng | I could feel mounting anxiety as the deadline approached. | cope with mounting anxiety, mounting anxiety levels |
| cope with | phrasal verb | /kəʊp wɪð/ | đương đầu với, đối phó với | She learned to cope with stress through meditation. | cope with stress, cope with pressure, struggle to cope with |
| handle pressure | verb phrase | /ˈhændl ˈpreʃə/ | xử lý áp lực | Athletes need to handle pressure in competitions. | handle pressure well, ability to handle pressure, learn to handle pressure |
| stress management | noun | /stres ˈmænɪdʒmənt/ | quản lý căng thẳng | Effective stress management is crucial for health. | stress management techniques, stress management skills, good stress management |
| overwhelmed | adj | /ˌəʊvəˈwelmd/ | quá tải, choáng ngợp | I felt overwhelmed by the workload. | feel overwhelmed, completely overwhelmed, overwhelmed with |
| panic | verb/noun | /ˈpænɪk/ | hoảng sợ, hoảng loạn | Don’t panic; we still have time. | panic attack, in a panic, start to panic, wave of panic |
| composure | noun | /kəmˈpəʊʒə/ | bình tĩnh, điềm tĩnh | She maintained her composure during the crisis. | maintain composure, lose composure, regain composure, remarkable composure |
| high-stakes | adj | /haɪ steɪks/ | có tính cược cao, quan trọng | It was a high-stakes presentation to investors. | high-stakes situation, high-stakes environment, high-stakes decision |
| adrenaline | noun | /əˈdrenəlɪn/ | adrenaline (hormone gây hưng phấn) | I could feel the adrenaline coursing through my body. | adrenaline rush, adrenaline pumping, surge of adrenaline |
| jittery | adj | /ˈdʒɪtəri/ | bồn chồn, lo lắng | I felt jittery before the interview. | feel jittery, jittery nerves, getting jittery |
| tense | adj | /tens/ | căng thẳng | The atmosphere was tense before the announcement. | feel tense, tense situation, tense moment, tense atmosphere |
| resilience | noun | /rɪˈzɪliəns/ | khả năng phục hồi, sức bền | Building resilience helps cope with setbacks. | emotional resilience, build resilience, demonstrate resilience, lack of resilience |
| self-conscious | adj | /ˌself ˈkɒnʃəs/ | tự ti, ngượng ngùng | He felt self-conscious about his accent. | feel self-conscious, self-conscious about, overly self-conscious |
| debilitating | adj | /dɪˈbɪlɪteɪtɪŋ/ | làm suy nhược, gây tổn hại nghiêm trọng | Debilitating anxiety prevented her from working. | debilitating anxiety, debilitating fear, debilitating stress |
Idiomatic Expressions & Advanced Phrases
| Cụm từ | Nghĩa | Ví dụ sử dụng | Band điểm |
|---|---|---|---|
| a test of nerves | thử thách về sự bình tĩnh | The final exam was a real test of nerves. | 8-9 |
| get cold feet | sợ hãi, do dự vào phút chót | He got cold feet before proposing. | 7-8 |
| bundle of nerves | người cực kỳ lo lắng | I was a bundle of nerves before the interview. | 7-8 |
| nail-biting | căng thẳng đến mức cắn móng tay | It was a nail-biting finish to the competition. | 7.5-8 |
| sweaty palms | lòng bàn tay đổ mồ hôi (vì lo lắng) | I had sweaty palms throughout the presentation. | 7-8 |
| heart racing | tim đập nhanh | My heart was racing as I walked onto the stage. | 7-8 |
| freeze up | đơ người vì lo lắng | I tend to freeze up when speaking in public. | 7.5-8 |
| push through | vượt qua khó khăn | Despite feeling nervous, I pushed through and completed the task. | 7.5-8 |
| rise to the challenge | đương đầu với thách thức | She rose to the challenge despite her initial nervousness. | 8-9 |
| mental block | tắc nghẽn tư duy | I experienced a mental block during the exam. | 7.5-8 |
| throw someone off balance | làm ai đó mất bình tĩnh | The unexpected question threw me off balance. | 8-9 |
| keep one’s cool | giữ bình tĩnh | Try to keep your cool even in stressful situations. | 7.5-8 |
Discourse Markers (Từ Nối Ý Trong Speaking)
Để bắt đầu câu trả lời:
- 📝 Well,… – Sử dụng khi cần thời gian suy nghĩ nhẹ: “Well, I think nervousness is quite natural…”
- 📝 Actually,… – Khi đưa ra thông tin bất ngờ hoặc khác với expectation: “Actually, I find nervousness can be helpful…”
- 📝 To be honest,… – Khi muốn thể hiện tính thành thật: “To be honest, I still get nervous before important events…”
- 📝 I’d say that… – Cách mềm mại để đưa ra quan điểm: “I’d say that managing nervousness is a learned skill…”
Để bổ sung ý:
- 📝 On top of that,… – Thêm một điểm nữa: “On top of that, nervousness can actually improve performance…”
- 📝 What’s more,… – Bổ sung thông tin quan trọng: “What’s more, cultural attitudes toward nervousness vary widely…”
- 📝 Not to mention… – Đề cập điều quan trọng khác: “Not to mention the physical symptoms like sweating and trembling…”
- 📝 Moreover,…/Furthermore,… – Formal hơn một chút: “Moreover, stress management should be taught in schools…”
Để đưa ra quan điểm cân bằng:
- 📝 On the one hand,… On the other hand,… – So sánh hai mặt: “On the one hand, nervousness motivates us. On the other hand, too much anxiety is harmful…”
- 📝 While it’s true that…, we also need to consider… – Thừa nhận một điểm nhưng đưa ra góc nhìn khác: “While it’s true that nervousness is uncomfortable, we also need to consider its benefits…”
- 📝 That being said,… – Chuyển sang ý đối lập: “Nervousness can be motivating. That being said, excessive anxiety is counterproductive…”
Để kết luận:
- 📝 All in all,… – Tóm lại tổng quan: “All in all, nervousness is a natural human response…”
- 📝 At the end of the day,… – Cuối cùng thì điều quan trọng là: “At the end of the day, learning to manage nervousness is essential…”
- 📝 Ultimately,… – Sau cùng, kết luận cuối cùng: “Ultimately, nervousness can be either helpful or harmful depending on how we handle it…”
Grammatical Structures Ấn Tượng
1. Conditional Sentences (Câu điều kiện):
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Mixed conditional: “If I hadn’t prepared thoroughly, I would still be struggling with nervousness today.”
- Diễn tả điều kiện trong quá khứ và kết quả ở hiện tại
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Inversion (Đảo ngữ): “Had I known how nerve-wracking it would be, I would have prepared differently.”
- Formal và sophisticated hơn câu điều kiện thông thường
- Ví dụ: “Were I to face that situation again, I would handle it with more confidence.”
2. Relative Clauses (Mệnh đề quan hệ):
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Non-defining relative clause: “My first presentation, which was nerve-wracking at the time, taught me valuable lessons.”
- Thêm thông tin bổ sung, không thiết yếu
- Ví dụ: “Nervousness, which is a natural human response, can actually enhance performance.”
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Reduced relative clause: “The nervousness experienced before major events often stems from fear of failure.”
- Rút gọn mệnh đề quan hệ để câu ngắn gọn hơn
3. Passive Voice (Câu bị động):
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It is thought/believed/said that…: “It is widely believed that moderate nervousness can improve focus.”
- Impersonal structure, academic style
- Ví dụ: “It has been proven that stress management techniques significantly reduce anxiety levels.”
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Advanced passive: “The presentation had been rehearsed multiple times before the actual event.”
- Past perfect passive để nhấn mạnh hành động đã hoàn thành trước thời điểm khác
4. Cleft Sentences (Câu chẻ):
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What I find most… is…: “What I find most challenging about nervousness is the physical symptoms it causes.”
- Nhấn mạnh vào một khía cạnh cụ thể
- Ví dụ: “What really helped me overcome nervousness was thorough preparation.”
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The thing that… is…: “The thing that makes me most nervous is speaking in front of large audiences.”
- Tương tự, nhấn mạnh yếu tố cụ thể
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It was… that…: “It was the fear of judgment that made me so nervous.”
- Focus vào một phần cụ thể của câu
Nếu bạn quan tâm đến cách xử lý tình huống phức tạp hơn, hãy tham khảo describe a time when you were involved in a decision-making process để thấy được mối liên hệ giữa lo lắng và các quyết định quan trọng trong cuộc sống.
Những Sai Lầm Thường Gặp và Cách Khắc Phục
Lỗi 1: Trả lời quá ngắn gọn
Vấn đề: Nhiều thí sinh Việt Nam chỉ trả lời 1-2 câu rồi dừng lại, đặc biệt ở Part 1 và Part 3.
Ví dụ sai:
- Question: “Do you often feel nervous?”
- Answer: “Yes, sometimes.”
Cách khắc phục:
- Luôn expand câu trả lời với công thức: Direct answer + Reason/Explanation + Example
- Ví dụ đúng: “Yes, I do experience nervousness from time to time, particularly before important presentations at work. I think it’s quite natural because I want to perform well and make a good impression. For instance, last month I felt quite anxious before meeting a new client.”
Lỗi 2: Lạm dụng từ vựng quá phức tạp không tự nhiên
Vấn đề: Học quá nhiều từ “to” rồi cố nhồi nhét vào câu, khiến câu trả lời nghe không natural.
Ví dụ sai: “I was experiencing extreme trepidation and consternation regarding the imminent examination.”
Cách khắc phục:
- Sử dụng từ vựng phù hợp với context và register
- Ví dụ đúng: “I was really nervous about the upcoming exam.” (tự nhiên hơn)
- Hoặc nâng cao hơn một chút: “I felt quite apprehensive about the exam.” (vẫn tự nhiên nhưng sophisticated)
Lỗi 3: Sử dụng sai thì trong Part 2
Vấn đề: Khi kể về trải nghiệm trong quá khứ nhưng lại dùng thì hiện tại.
Ví dụ sai: “I feel very nervous when I give the presentation. My hands shake and I can’t speak clearly.”
Cách khắc phục:
- Part 2 về past experience cần dùng past tenses consistently
- Ví dụ đúng: “I felt very nervous when I was giving the presentation. My hands were shaking and I couldn’t speak clearly.”
Lỗi 4: Không trả lời đúng câu hỏi
Vấn đề: Nói lan man về chủ đề general thay vì trả lời trực tiếp câu hỏi được hỏi.
Ví dụ:
- Question: “Why did you feel so nervous?”
- Sai: “Nervousness is a common feeling. Many people experience it…”
- Đúng: “I felt so nervous because it was my first time presenting to senior management, and I was worried about making mistakes that could affect my career prospects.”
Lỗi 5: Thiếu ví dụ cụ thể
Vấn đề: Chỉ nói chung chung mà không có specific examples.
Ví dụ sai: “People get nervous in many situations. It affects their performance.”
Cách khắc phục:
- Luôn support general statements với specific examples
- Ví dụ đúng: “People get nervous in various situations. For instance, my colleague became extremely anxious before her job interview last week, which affected her ability to articulate her ideas clearly during the actual interview.”
Chiến Lược Chuẩn Bị Hiệu Quả
1. Lên kế hoạch nội dung trước khi thi
Cho Part 2:
- Chuẩn bị 1 real story mà bạn có thể adapt cho nhiều topics khác nhau
- Ví dụ: Một presentation experience có thể dùng cho “nervous”, “success”, “proud”, “challenge”
- Tập kể chi tiết: When (specific time), Where (specific place), Who (people involved), What happened (detailed actions), How you felt (emotions), Why it mattered (significance)
Cho Part 3:
- Tập thinking frameworks:
- Compare/Contrast: “In the past… whereas today…”
- Cause/Effect: “One reason is… which leads to…”
- Problem/Solution: “The main issue is… To address this…”
- Pros/Cons: “On the positive side… However, we must also consider…”
2. Thực hành với recording
Cách thực hành:
- Record câu trả lời của bạn
- Listen back và identify:
- Hesitations và pauses
- Repetitive vocabulary
- Grammar errors
- Incomplete ideas
- Re-record với improvements
- Compare để thấy progress
3. Mở rộng vocabulary một cách strategic
Không nên: Học thuộc danh sách 100 từ random
Nên:
- Học vocabulary theo topic clusters (emotions vocabulary cho topic “nervous”)
- Học collocations thay vì isolated words (mounting anxiety, manage stress, cope with pressure)
- Practice using new vocabulary in sentences ngay lập tức
- Review regularly với spaced repetition
4. Develop fluency qua shadowing
Shadowing technique:
- Chọn video/audio của native speakers discussing similar topics
- Listen và repeat ngay sau họ, mimicking intonation và rhythm
- Focus vào discourse markers và transition phrases
- Practice daily 10-15 phút
5. Mock tests với feedback
Tự practice:
- Set timer chính xác (Part 1: 4-5 min, Part 2: 2 min speaking, Part 3: 4-5 min)
- Record full test
- Self-evaluate bằng band descriptors
- Identify 2-3 areas for improvement mỗi lần
Với partner/tutor:
- Practice với người có thể give constructive feedback
- Ask specific questions: “Was my vocabulary natural?”, “Did I answer all parts?”
- Implement feedback trong lần practice tiếp theo
Lời Khuyên Từ Examiner
Với hơn 20 năm kinh nghiệm chấm thi IELTS Speaking, tôi muốn chia sẻ những insights quan trọng:
1. Naturalness beats perfection:
Một câu trả lời tự nhiên với một vài grammar mistakes nhỏ sẽ score cao hơn một câu perfectly grammatical nhưng sounds memorized. Examiners được train để detect learned answers.
2. It’s okay to take a moment:
Nếu cần suy nghĩ, dùng fillers tự nhiên như “Well, that’s an interesting question…”, “Let me think…”, “Hmm, I’d say…” thay vì im lặng hoàn toàn. Điều này shows you’re thinking, không phải không biết.
3. Develop ideas, don’t just list:
Thay vì “I feel nervous because of A, B, and C,” hãy pick one point và develop thoroughly: “The main reason I felt nervous was… This was particularly significant because… For instance…”
4. Show personality:
IELTS Speaking là conversation, không phải interrogation. Smile, show enthusiasm về topics bạn thích, express genuine emotions. Examiners appreciate authentic communication.
5. Don’t panic if you don’t know a word:
Paraphrase! “I can’t remember the exact word, but I mean the feeling when you’re worried about something bad happening” (describing “anxiety”). This actually demonstrates language skill.
6. Quality over quantity in vocabulary:
Sử dụng đúng 10 từ vựng B2-C1 một cách natural tốt hơn là cố nhồi nhét 50 từ C2 mà không appropriate. Precision matters more than complexity.
7. Answer the actual question:
Nghe kỹ câu hỏi. Nếu hỏi “Why”, đừng chỉ describe “What”. Nếu hỏi về “the past”, đừng nói về “generally”. Relevance là một scoring criterion.
Kết Luận
Chủ đề “Describe a time when you felt very nervous about something” là một đề tài phổ biến và thực tế trong IELTS Speaking. Để đạt band điểm cao, bạn cần:
✅ Chuẩn bị thoroughly: Có real story chi tiết, practice storytelling với proper tenses
✅ Develop vocabulary: Focus vào emotions vocabulary, collocations, và idiomatic expressions liên quan đến nervousness và stress management
✅ Structure answers clearly: Đặc biệt ở Part 3, use discourse markers để organize ideas logically
✅ Provide specific examples: Avoid vague generalizations, luôn support với concrete examples
✅ Show depth in thinking: Đặc biệt trong Part 3, analyze issues từ multiple perspectives, acknowledge complexity
✅ Speak naturally: Don’t sound memorized, use appropriate intonation và body language
✅ Practice consistently: Regular mock tests với self-recording và feedback
Nhớ rằng, nervousness trong bài thi IELTS Speaking là hoàn toàn normal! Ngay cả examiners cũng hiểu điều này. Sự chuẩn bị kỹ lưỡng sẽ giúp bạn transform nervousness thành confident performance. Với strategies và vocabulary được chia sẻ trong bài viết này, bạn hoàn toàn có thể đạt được band điểm mục tiêu.
Chúc bạn thành công trong kỳ thi IELTS Speaking! Remember, every expert was once a beginner who refused to give up. Keep practicing, stay confident, và bạn sẽ thấy improvement rõ rệt.
